Dear Charlotte: How do I make anal enjoyable?

Dear Charlotte

My girlfriend says she wants to try anal but every time I try she says its too painful and I don’t know how to make it enjoyable for her. We watch pornography together and she gets really turned on by it but I don’t know how to re-enact what we watch, any advice?

Cheers Ian

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Dear Charlotte: My girlfriend is bad at blow jobs

Dear Charlotte

My girlfriend is really bad at giving me a blow job and I’ve tried to tell her what she should be doing but every time I mention it, she makes me fell bad in a way I have insulted her. How can I tell her how to improve without hurting her feelings and also making her not want to do it…

Thanks John

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Dear Charlotte: My girlfriend flinches when I go near her

Dear Charlotte,

My girlfriend says that when I finger her it’s painful, she says its that painful that she flinches every time I go near her, She then wont let me give her oral sex and it has really knocked my confidence.

I’ve tried to talk about it about it in detail but she shy’s away from telling me so I don’t understand what I am doing wrong, can you help?

Thanks Richard

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